Lanaer Young was born on June 20, 1979, to Soretta Irene Hickman and Larry Young. The oldest of five siblings, Lanaer was deeply loved by his family. He was baptized at an early age by Bishop Adlai E. Mack at Christians United Church, where he joined the Junior Gospel Choir and developed a deep knowledge of the Bible. He attended school in San Diego and El Cajon, graduating with honors from Midway Baptist Christian High School.
Family was everything to Lanaer. As the first grandson of the Hickman family, he was welcomed with love and care. With curly blonde hair and a unique presence, he was known for his protective nature and devotion to his mother and family.
Affectionately known as “Red”, Lanaer was full of laughter and charm. He played football at Midway Baptist and continued at Southwestern College through DUO Sports. Football was his passion—his strength and confidence shined on the field.
A brilliant and witty young man, Lanaer had many loving cousins, childhood friends, church mentors, barbershop clients, and coaches—especially from around “Elm Street”. Known for his cool style, music, and signature head nod, he was always the life of the party. Weekends at Gran Gran’s house were filled with friends lining up for his haircuts.
Though life brought challenges, Lanaer met them with courage, faith, and determination. He earned his Bachelor’s Degree and became a Certified Master Barber—a craft he took pride in. In a season of growth, he tattooed the names of loved ones across his body—his own tribute to the family he cherished.
He later settled in Moreno Valley, CA, with his beloved fiancée, Ellena Nunnery, spending 16 years together and welcoming their son Greyson. Lanaer loved tropical fish and breeding pit bulls. He was a proud father to Imani Robertson (25), Lanaer Young Jr. (21), and Greyson Young (11), and a grandfather to two.
Lanaer endured two strokes that left him hospitalized for the past three years. Through it all, Ellena stood by him with unwavering love.
On July 11, 2025, at age 46, God called him home.
Lanaer will always be remembered as “Forever Young”.
He was preceded in death by his father Larry Young and other beloved relatives.
He leaves behind a large and loving family, countless friends, and a legacy of love, strength, and unforgettable presence.
