Richard Jenkins, lovingly known as Black Widow and Kool Herk, and given himself the
nickname “Reality”, was born on December 7, 1955 in San Diego, California. He was the cherished son of James Rufus Jenkins of North Carolina and Ruth Jenkins, affectionately called “Baby Dear,” of Arkansas.
Richard attended Stockton Elementary, Memorial Jr. High, and San Diego High School, where he excelled in track and field. He was also deeply involved in his faith community, serving as an altar boy at Christ the King Church, until 1972 when he joined New Creation Church of San Diego.
Richard grew up surrounded by a large and loving family and was the 6th child of 13 children.
As a lifelong sports enthusiast, Richard was a devoted San Diego Padres fan, and he had a special love for the Del Mar Racetrack. He carried a bright, cheerful spirit, and a sharp wit from an early age. Richard showed his determination and work ethics, starting out as a newspaper boy and carrying that same ambition throughout his life. He was a dedicated shipyard and postal worker and made sure his family was cared for.
To his family and friends, Richard was especially gifted in recalling people’s names and
calculating numbers. Richard looked forward to hosting and sponsoring a large Christmas party for the entire neighborhood every year. One of his favorite things to do was hanging out and traveling with his ‘papa’ John Handcox, as a young man, even as an adult he would light up each time he told one of their traveling stories. Long story short, everybody knew Richard and Richard knew everybody.
Richard passed away on September 27, 2025.
Richard is survived by 12 beloved children, 12 grandchildren, one great-granddaughter, 8 siblings, and a host of nieces, nephews, cousins, and friends.
He is preceded in death by his parents, several of his siblings, and his longtime love Wyonia Mitchell. May the Lord reunite them in peace.
Mr. Jenkins you will be dearly missed
