Wendell Louis Parker, Jr. was born and raised in San Diego to the proud parents of Wendell Parker Sr., and Hattie Parker, on October 11, 1976. Wendell, affectionately called “Pooh Bear”, a nickname given to him in high school, transitioned from this life on Saturday, April 05, 2025, surrounded by friends and family, during one of his iconic beach days.
In life, there was no task that was too great or too small for him. Wendell was a gentle soul and had wisdom beyond his years. Always encouraging those closest to him to find joy in keeping their unique perspective on life. Those who knew Wendell knew that he was a true die-hard Californian. He loved the Padres, the Lakers, beach days, tasty food, and staying active by walking or biking along the coast daily to accomplish his 10,000 steps. Wendell was a man with great personal style, he usually wore a crisp white tee and a stylish hat. His quiet charisma and diligence made every moment feel
special. During the last three years of Wendell’s life, he embraced a new and cherished role as “Papa” to his grandson, Sah Young. Wendell built beautiful bonds with people throughout his time on earth. He traveled out of the country and was never afraid to try something new.
Preceding Wendell in death is his godson Lamar Mack-Santos, whom he affectionately called “Son”.
Wendell is survived by his Father and Mother; Wendell Sr., and Hattie Mae, two
children; son Malachi Parker and his mother Michelle from San Diego, and daughter Lailah Parker, two stepdaughters; Shanitah and Lyndah Young, their mother Fatimah, grandson Sah Young from North Carolina, brother Everett Wofford from San Diego, nephew Jayden Wofford, his mother Christina from San Diego, niece Aviana Wofford, her mother Aishia from San Diego, his godmother Earline Hilliard from San Diego, his beloved second family from San Diego; Marc and Cynthia Santos, whom he lovingly called “Pop and Mom”, his sisters and brother; Crystal (“Sis”), Danielle (“Lil sis”), and Marc Jr. (“Bro”), Miss Debbie (“Play Mom”), Jaliva Dawson (“Play Sis”), Dyvarre
Dawson (“Play Son”), Angela Washington (“Play Sister”) from Baytown, Texas, and a host of uncles, aunts, cousins, and many dear and wonderful friends.
