Arrangements by Preferred Cremation & Burial. Funeral Services were held on December 10, 2022 at Preferred Cremation & Burial Chapel
Pamela Marie Simpson Lacy was born on August 14, 1959 in Leavenworth, Kansas, to proud parents Maxie and Charles Allen Simspon. Pamela was the sixth child blessed to this union. She was raised as a baptist christian.
As a child, Pamela lived in England and Montana before her family settled in San Diego, CA. This is where she completed her education as a graduate of Gompers Preparatory Academy. She was a loving wife and mother to her three children (Latea M. Lacy, Edward Allen Lacy, and Jeston L. White). She also extended herself to help her husband (Freddie Lacy) raise two young daughters whom she loved as her own (Tara Robinson and Camelley Mitchell).
She loved to have fun and would often host bonfires and barbecues for friends and family, alongside her husband in their front yard. Pamela often loved to spend time with her mother and sister playing bingo or watching the ID channel. She was the type of woman who didn’t judge others and would always lend a listening ear. She put her all into caring for her family, more specifically her son Allen Lacy. He loved his mother with all of his heart.
Pamela attended Mt. Olive Baptist Church in San Diego. She faithfully served the church by performing acts of charity and hospitality as a Deaconess for years.
Pamela entered into the presence of the Lord and Savior on November 21, 2022. She has joined her husband (Freddie Lacy) and son (Allen Lacy), both of whom preceded her in death. Pamela leaves to cherish her memory; son Jeston L. White; daughter Late’a M. Lacy (Ahmad Lacy); mother (Maxie Simpson); sister Patricia Smith; brothers (Gary Simpson, Albert Simpson, Charles Simpson, and Joseph Simpson); and a host of nieces, nephews, cousins, family members, and friends.